When you see this screen shot... what do you really think ? about me ? and my loving amma ?
Well........ just for a moment keep you answer....!!
Ok...
seriously ....... your answer doesn't matter for me. I am gonna say a little story about my mom and me............ oh.... and my dad. How I forget him. It is all about our family, bonds and everything. First need to mention that am the one and only child in my family... Don't ask why ...... just ask it from my parents if you have any issue.
Been only child is better.. yeah.... I agree with that..!! But not at all. In other hand I am disappointed. When I think about been only child, believe me its really painful. When I was a kid I didn't like a brother or sister or anyone...!! I always wanted to be only child. But now , to be honest with you, I badly wanna sibling. Now......... this is not the time..
Just forget it, I don't wanna go so far with that... its painful...
However I have limited friends, so that people believe I am some kind of weird guys...... Well they probably right... of course am weird....!
I believe friends must be limited and bonds also must be limeted even buddha has taught us !
ok........... now it getting wrong.... my topic is "Mom and Dad" I'll continue about my friends in later post...
Well now am getting over the right place... I mean I must...!!
When I posted this picture on facebook, people keep asking me "hey... dude don't say "ammata siri.." to your mama..." , "is that real or fake ?" , "hey....... man this is not good" , "are you texting with your mom.........."
ohhhhhhhh.......... mannn..... I mean what the Fuck..!! why the hell people asking that kind of silly bloody questions. ? I am not one of them. I am unique , yeah........ you also unique .. and everybody unique.
so my story is l love my parents, they love me too... doesn't mean I am only child. I am a child. But I really think am different from others.. that is just the way I think.. if I wrong you can say anything. So yeah....... am texting with my mom, sometimes calling to my dad... mostly there are no reasons to calling or texting. But I do.. I love that. Actually I don't have a girl fried... I mean I don't have a girl friend yet.... "YET" okey......... :P ?
I already mentioned what Lord Buddha taught us "get rid from the bonds" I am a Buddhist .. yeah... If I say more I am Sinhala Buddhist .. so .. of course I agree with that....
mmmm..... but I think .. I mean I think .. that is my personal one.... You must have a good bond and god friendship with your parents... To do this you must be open minded person. Then you can talk your everything with your parents. But no need to say them to all... you can keep secrets, that is your choice...!!
But personally I have chosen my mom as a best friend. So we talk each other. We are really close. she always gives advises and always try to keep my mind fresh. But I am not a perfect guy... I still in broken...but I exactly know that is my fault.
Whatever happens we talk each other, I talk what happened today... what I did today./..... same as she... she tells me everything like I do... then we are close friends.
Insted of my mom I have two good , best , better friends... just wanna mention their names Akila, and Hashan......
But I always tell my daily stories with my mom and she do the same thing I do. So we are close.......
andd.............. the world "ammata siri" is not a big deal..........!!
I always........ actually.... ah... we always try to be in cool situations ... Well in other hand everybody have problems.. may be a little maybe a huge.., sometimes you can't even image how huge they are...!! I agree 100% we have that problems, we had that preambles...!! Family problems.. they are not big deals because everyone has problems, they are debends on background, friends, people around us and many things. So... I am not gonna say or I am not gonna make hint for that.
But we all have to manage those things and try to be always cool. Make great bonds with your parents. Share your experiences and you can share many more thing... actually you don't need to share everything because everyone need to keep a privacy and they need to keep their own secrets. That is fine...
But the bond is important.. just try to stay with your parents flirting with them. Tickle them.... you guys think am weird crazy idiot or someone... It is find, you have to rights to think that and tell that.... I don't care guys........... I am telling you seriously .... but RESPECT them. That is important more than everything. Always try to be a good person. Paper qualifications are useless if you are not a kindly hearted person. Be a friend to your , parents friends and everyone...
You can be a better person ..................... so joking with you mom or dad doesn't make disrespect. It make bonds ... keep bonds with your parents no need to all of them. But always keep in your mind ""You are your own refuge and you are your own savior.""
Sometime even your parents can't help you..........
